11/5 Sathorn Soi 9, Utopia Map, 02-286-4535, 02-286-5233, email. A short walk from the Surasak Sky Train Station and only minutes from Silom by taxi or tuk-tuk.

2/F Silom Plaza, 491/19-21 Silom Rd, Utopia Map, 02-635-3645, 02-635-3646, email. Large, modern and friendly venue offering a variety of energizing and relaxing services from traditional massage to aroma therapy. Classy decor and good management who put an emphasis on polite and genuine service. Large massage rooms are equipped with private showers and lock boxes for your valuables. Ideal location in the center of the city, close to many hotels.

Comments from Utopians:

"I have been visiting Arena spa in Silom Plaza for 2 years. The service is still very good! Last week, I noticed they are improving their spa. It looks much better than before. Much cleaner." -- spalovers, Sep 21, 2009

"Run down. Prices not so expensive, but the masseur asked for more tip for nothing. The massage quality was not worth it. Masseurs and captain rushed and my massage did not even reach one hour." -- Jeffwck, Jul 26, 2009

"Same good standard as before. Good choice of masseurs." -- tomas1, Apr 20, 2009

Baan Tewa Massage 135/8 Sathorn Soi 7, appointments: 02-679-0816, 089-009-6633, email. Enjoy a relaxing or energizing massage treatment in Baan Tewa's very personal atmosphere, located in a beautiful and quiet townhouse, only five minutes away from the Silom area. Their first class treatments use quality products that have been specially developed to relax your body and mind. Be pampered in the hands of their excellent masseurs. Open daily from noon to 10pm. Utopia Member Discount

Comments from Utopians:

"I always have good, professional massages at Baan Tewa, one of the places where you can get real massages. The guys are cute, too. Baan Tewa is one of my must-go places whenever I'm in Bangkok. However, there's room for improvement both in the ambience and service." -- philophallus, Oct 7, 2009

894/7-8 Soi Pratoochai (above Dick's Cafe in Duangthawee Plaza, also known as Soi Twilight), Suriwong Rd, Utopia Map, 02-637-0704, email. Small sauna and massage with body scrubs, cream and oil massage. Massage for men by men.

Rama 4 City Court, 18/464 Rama 4 Rd, Lumpini, Patumwan, 02-251-1009, email. Located near Suan Lum night bazzar (MRT Lumpini). A hidden spa paradise for men that gives guests an enjoyable and memorable experience. Clean with warm textures and furnishings. A refreshment area and resting area for pre- and post-spa relaxation. Each spa room is equipped with individual shower. More than 20 masseurs with professional skills and sincerity. Treatments include aroma massage, sports massage, Thai massage, body scrub, Paradise Spa Package, and body scrub with aroma massage (2 hours). Gay-managed. Free parking. Open daily 1pm-10pm. Utopia Member Discount

Comments from Utopians:

"Just returned from an 11-day vacation in Bangkok (coming from San Francisco), and I visited Candle Paradise Spa four times. It was a highlight to the vacation and a true oasis in a busy city. Fantastic, professional masseurs; facilities are super clean and luxurious with shower in each massage room. Tammy, the co-manager, can help pick the right masseur based on what you might be looking for (she is very hip and doesn't matter to her if you're gay). Had the spa package with body scrub and 90-minute massage (B$1,500), as well as 2-hour massage (B$1,300). Both were excellent. They also have 90-minute massage (B$1,000). Best to call them, so they can help you locate the spa." -- blissfully, Jan 25, 2010

"Visited Candle Paradise Spa twice. I can dare to say that's the best ever spa enjoyment I tried in Thailand or Asia. The place is cozy and clean. A comfortable environment! The masseurs are very professional and the co-manager Tammy is very helpful and nice." -- SpaKing, Nov 29, 2009

"Candle Paradise Spa was a huge surprise. It's very stylishly decorated and clean. Great ambience. Can be difficult to find as they're located inside a nondescript building. I almost went into another spa which has the name "Candle" in it; so be careful. As I was entering the Candle Paradise Spa, I encountered a woman leaving. I thought, uh-oh, I'm at a wrong place. It turns out that the woman was a co-manager. She's very friendly and, immediately, I felt good despite the frustration of searching for it. The guys there were yummy to look at. Especially the one at the reception. The massage was good. The room was tastefully done. Superb! I left with a very good feeling. Candle Paradise Spa has made it into my must-go list." -- philophallus, Oct 28, 2009

253/4 Soi Suan Phlu 6, Utopia Map, 02-677-5915, email. Beautifully appointed spa with gorgeous rooms and professional service. Open daily.

Lumpinee Place Rama 4 Condo, Soi Sri Bumphen (off Sathorn Soi 1 and Soi Yenakat), Utopia Map, 02-249-1049, 087-518-4975, 085-020-0780 (English, French, Dutch), email. A clean, gay and lesbian-friendly, high quality spa specializing in full body waxing by masseurs or masseuses. They use top products to provide customers with waxing, scrubs, aroma therapy, facials and foot massages. They also do treatments to firm the skin. Free parking available. Utopia Member Discount

101/11 Soi Langsuan, Utopia Map, 02-652-2577, email. A small, quiet day spa and massage venue in central Bangkok. Escape and get away from it all to relax and rejuvenate in style, without it costing the earth. Gay and lesbian-friendly. Utopia Member Discount

18/455 Rama 4 Court, Rama 4 Rd, Utopia Map, 02-252-8846, email. Gay-owned and managed spa offering traditional and contemporary spa therapies with all-male staff. Professional service, no hank-panky. Located on the bottom floor of two large apartment blocks on the Lumpini boxing stadium side of Rama 4. Contemporary design, relaxing, and soothing.

Comments from Utopians:

"Sanctuary Spa near Lumpini MRT is on the G/F of a residential building. The interior looks a bit cluttered and design was eccentric (trapezoid shape doors). The massage was OK, nothing to shout about. The masseur was polite and attentive." -- philophallus, Oct 28, 2009

5/8 Soi Saladaeng, Silom Rd, Utopia Map, 02-636-3535, email. Sensual massage for men, by men. Located right in the heart of the Silom gay area. Single and double treatment rooms with attached bath, chill-out area, aroma oil massage, exotic cream massage and body scrub. Gay-owned.

Comments from Utopians:

"Went to Senso this weekend. A fine selection of masseurs. They had two treatments: A 60-minute massage for B$1000 for massage + B$1000 minimum tip for the masseur; and a 90-minute scrub-massage for B$1,390 for massage + a minimum B$1,200 tip." -- Jonn, Dec 28, 2009

"I went for the private room massage last week when I was in Bangkok. My masseur was not serious with the massage and tried to finish as fast as possible." -- hayashijb, Aug 6, 2009

"Had two great experiences at Senso recently. Premises very clean. Bat and Golf were good in their recommendations. Mr Bee gave an excellent massage and was very sensuous as well. Mr Guy was very cute and willing to please, but a bit tired on that day. Mr John was a stunner with a killer smile and body to match." -- RichardMCS, May 22, 2009

928/930 Rama 4, 085-062-8200. It is located in the passageway at the side of Blue Star. A nice, clean little place with half a dozen masseurs - quite modest as are the prices.

5/F, 41/3-5 Soi Anumarnratchathon (off Soi Tarntawan, Mango Tree restaurant is on the corner of this Soi), Utopia Map, 02-2634-3607, 081-944-3785. Sauna is on the 5th floor of an office building just past Golden Cock bar. New management has taken over the formerly named Rhino Horn. Clean facilities include sauna and steam, gym, karaoke, maze, beer bar.

"Had a chance to try out Sukhothai massage along Silom Rd. The masseur I chose was really cute. My God, he should have been a movie star but he was so shy and massage was only so so." -- Benjamin, Apr 30, 2009

PHAHONYOTHIN -- Samsen, Victory Monument, Phahonyothin, Phayathai, Saphan Kwai, Chatuchak

2/F Chakran Bld, 32 Soi Ari 4, Phaholyothin Soi 7 (close by the Ari BTS Station), Utopia Map, 279-3322. New location on 2/F and 3/F of Chakran Sauna (separate entrance) for one of the longest running, favorite massage venues in the city. Friendly staff. Utopia Member Discount

RAMKHAMHAENG

Ramkhamhaeng Rd, 02-732-0613 (opposite Ramkhamhang Hospital in the small sub-soi between Soi 81 and 83). Small local sauna with gym, karaoke and massage.

508 Kasemsant Residence Village, Lardprao Soi 112 (Ramkhamhaeng Soi 53), 02-539-3259, email. Same owners as The Beach sauna. Cute masseurs for massage, facials, or beauty treatments for men. Facilities include sauna and pool.

SUKHUMVIT -- Sukhumvit, Thonglor, Ekkamai

71/1 Sukhumvit 11, Utopia Map, 02-255-8920, email. Located in a sub-soi at the back of Soi 11, between Soi 11 and 13. Open daily from 3pm-midnight. Gorgeous and plush complex includes restaurant, gym, steam room and meeting place. Excellent management.

Comments from Utopians:

"Albury Men's Club is not easy to find by walking. The outer facade doesn't look inviting. However, the interior looked clean and modern. They have adequate choices of masseurs. Mostly buff guys who looked like they're in their 20s or 30s. The room was basic and functional. The services was adequate. Overall, they were polite and respectful." -- philophallus, Oct 28, 2009

3/F 171 Sukhumvit Rd, Utopia Map, 02-254-0444. Enter the Ambassador Hotel from Sukhumvit or from Soi 11 and walk to the back of the main building. Take escalators up to 3/F and follow the sign to the health club. Masseurs in private rooms with showers. Non-gay gym and pool. Be discreet.

Comments from Utopians:

"If I want a down-to-earth, regular massage, without the atmosphere, then I go to Ambassador Hotel gym. It's only B$800 for a 90 minute session." -- Onebiglatin, Aug 31, 2009

4/F Sukhumvit Plaza, 212/23 Sukhumvit Soi 12 (on the corner, enter from Sukhumvit or Soi 12), Utopia Map, 02-251-9714. Go into the U-shaped open-air shopping plaza (lots of Korean restaurants) and take the elevator to 4/F where you will be greeted by their masseurs. Oil, cream and aroma therapy massage with shower in each room. Same owners as Arena.

41/9 Sukhumvit Soi 11 (enter on the side of the building now as main door seems to be permanently shut), Utopia Map, 02-651-0002. Banana is a well-kept secret offering low priced massage and a consistent clientele. Manager is multi-lingual (English, Chinese, Japanese and Thai). He's honest, factual and to the point. Most of the masseurs are truly gay.

229-1 Soi Ekamai 7, Sukhumvit 63, Utopia Map, 02-392-3189, email. Gay-owned massage for men, by men, located in the quiet and peaceful surroundings of garden-themed homes. Providing first class massage and premium service. Each guest is treated like a friend. After your massage, relax in their comfortable chill-out area. Thai/German management.

Body Club 4/24-25 Sukhumvit Soi 8 (right turn into the small sub-soi at the 7-11), Utopia Map, 089-171-9009, 081-613-6095, email. Very close to the Nana Sky Train Station. Massage by men in a small, neighborhood venue. Private rooms and showers. Oil, cream, aroma, milk cream, and body scrub treatments. Open daily from noon-10pm. Utopia Member Discount

Sukhumvit 22 (in the Washington Theater parking lot), Utopia Map, 02-663-4916.

167 Sukhumvit 19 (just off Asoke Road, Sukhumvit 21), Utopia Map, 02-204-1318. New ownership.

Thonglor Soi 8, Sukhumvit 55, Utopia Map, 02-390-0197. Upscale male spa in a pleasant house and garden atmosphere.

65 Sukhumvit Soi 11, Utopia Map, 02-251-1033, 02-651-2358. Enter Soi 11 from Sukhumvit, make a left at the end of the Soi and follow the road until it hits the canal (Hero is on the left). Well-run facility with restaurant is one of Bangkok's best. Massage areas are clean and private. VIP rooms available. Very popular for its privacy and good service.

Comments from Utopians:

"Hero was an excellent experience.....up to 40 masseurs, friendly guys eager to please." -- qsandy, Mar 15, 2010

"This place is still and always the best massage place in Bangkok." -- gilnice, Jan 20, 2010

"Hero has a large selection of masseurs to choose from. The guys are diverse in looks, body and size. I had a hard time choosing. My masseur had almost zero massage skill, but he was very charming and eager to please. The room was small with an attached shower. It's very basic compared to their reception area. If you want greater options and variety, try Hero. I give it thumbs up for choices. Expect so-so services at the reception and payment counter." -- philophallus, Oct 7, 2009

15/1 Sukhumvit 41, 02-258-8889, email. About 500m from the Emporium shopping center and the Phrom Pong Sky Train Station. A friendly spa for "family like us." Their team of trained, professional masseurs are on hand to rejuvenate your body and soul. Their holistic treatments take you to higher levels of consciousness through the use of loving touch, breathing techniques and awareness. Open daily noon-10pm. Utopia Member Discount

24/6 Sukhumvit 23, Utopia Map, 080-229-7969, email. Gay-owned UrbanMale is a fun and relaxing place to enjoy a satisfying massage and quality spa service with the masseur of your choice. Stylish, private rooms have large, modern showers and aircon. Walking distance or a short motorcycle hop from the Skytrain and subway stations. Parking is available nearby. Open daily from 1-11pm. Utopia Member Discount

Comments from Utopians:

"Tastefully decorated. It has a nice ambience. Not a large selection of masseurs. The one that I picked had good massage skills. Overall, the experience was good. Will definitely be returning to UrbanMale in the future." -- philophallus, Oct 28, 2009

"UrbanMale Massage wins hands down with the quality of the spa-like atmosphere, the skill level of the masseurs, and the overall treatment by the masseurs. It has become my favorite high-end massage. The prices for aroma oil massages range beteen B$600-1000 with a recommended tip of B$1000." -- Onebiglatin, Aug 31, 2009

"I was pleasantly surprised by the overall quality of my experience, and I've since become a regular because of the consistently good massages, the variety of masseurs to select from (14 on my last visit), and the super clean, modern facilities. I've lived in Thailand for 10 years and been to almost all of the massage places. If you're looking for a parlor with 30-40 masseurs, this is not the place to go to, but I prefer a smaller, friendly place. And, one suggestion: On my last visit, I had to wait 45 minutes because all of their studios were full. So, you may want phone a few hours before your visit to reserve a room" -- Jonn, Aug 22, 2009

"UrbanMale Massage in BKK is excellent. Beautiful, clean rooms. Friendly manager. Cute masseurs. Well worth a visit -- just opposite the Citadines Hotel at the end of Sukhumvit 23. Asok BTS/MRT." -- nxala2005, Jul 27, 2009

OTHER AREAS

99 Ratchadapisek Rd, Utopia Map, 02-660-9193, email. For people looking for real, professional, non-sexual bodywork in a relaxing environment. Thai staff are all certified in massage therapy and are also trained in Shiatsu by the American owner. English, Thai and a little Manadarin are spoken. Utopia Member Discount

OUTCALL CITYWIDE

Bangkok Star Male Massage +86-136-6144-6025 (English and Chinese), email. Gay-owned massage business with branches in more than a dozen cities including Hong Kong, Singapore and Shanghai. Specializing in handsome, friendly Chinese masseurs offering relaxing massage therapy for men. Booking is easy and they speak excellent English. Just go their website and select "Bangkok" to pick your masseur from pictures (all pics are of their real staff). Then call to confirm and your masseur is on the way within minutes. 24-hour outcall, direct to your door. Utopia Member Discount

Appointments: 087-971-6498, email. Outcall massage service. Friendly, English-speaking service without an attitude. Very discreet.

Moon Boy Massage 080-249-6336, email. Relaxing body massage at your hotel or home. Friendly service by handsome young masseurs. Available 24 hours, call anytime. Utopia Member Discount