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Advisory: There have never been laws against homosexual activity in Vietnam. Although state-run media temporarily declared that homosexuality was a "social evil" in 2002, officials quickly corrected those with ignorant, superstitious views and the Communist Youth Newspaper carried a story about homosexuality that same year stating "some people are born gay, just as some people are born left-handed." Gay venues openly exist and sport official MSM safer sex materials, the government put on an exhibition of photographs called Gay Life which toured all major universities, and the country recognized its first same-sex domestic partner of a diplomat with an official diplomatic visa. In 2012, the government officially began debating the issue of allowing gay marriage and this open discussion rippled through Vietnamese society in a fundamental and positive way. From famous poets, celebrities, and party leaders, gays have, of course, always been an integral thread in the fabric of Vietnam..
In 2015 Vietnam lifted the official ban on same-sex marriage, although it has not yet conferred legal protections to same-sex spouses that it gives to straight spouses.
Homosexuality is not a crime in Vietnam, but blackmail is, so do contact the Police if you are threatened by a scam artist. Prostitution is illegal as is the payment of money for sexual services. Gay visitors can help to set a good example by observing the local laws and customs.
Vietnam Listings by City:
Other cities and provinces are listed below...
|A poem by Vietnam's preeminent gay poet of the 20th century, Xuan Dieu
translated by Huynh Sanh Thong
A Fool in Love
You suffer as you stray and lose your heart,
adore the wrong one, and misplace your love.
Your gold you lavish where it goes to waste;
you suffer as you beg where one won't give.
It seems so smooth, the road - who will beware?
When you come to, the thorn has stung your bone.
You lax the reins and let your heart run loose --
you suffer as you can't turn back again.
You peer in shallow eyes, discover depths;
you fancy riches stored in vacuous hearts.
Forever you'll pursue sheer mists or clouds,
intent on finding heaven here on earth.
You suffer, squeezing through a narrow gate --
the door's shut tight, so harder you will pounce.
When stabbed and injured, you will keep the knife
and won't be healed of your delicious wound.
-- Xuan Dieu, Sending Fragrance to the Wind
photo by Jiri Pasz
Vietnam has become a favorite destination for travelers to Southeast Asia. Picturesque, vibrant and youthful, it offers magnificent natural wonders, gorgeous beaches, ancient city lanes, addictive cuisine and a paradise of shopping bargains.
Vietnam is splashed with color, from verdant rice fields, hot pink lanterns and day-glo boutiques, to the increasing visibility of gays and lesbians adding their own special hues to Vietnam’s rainbow.
Vietnam is a place to have fun, but also a place to use your common sense since the gay world here is still largely in the shadows.
No seasoned traveler should miss a chance to encounter the amazingly friendly Vietnamese, to learn about their rich culture and enjoy their warm hospitality!
- The legality of homosexuality in Vietnam: a posting from the VN-GBLF E-mail forum (see info below on joining this forum).
- Vietnam Gay & Lesbian News Archive
- Vietnamese terms for homosexuality: a posting from the VN-GBLF E-mail forum.
- Additional links for Vietnam GLBT information.
- A World Without Women (Vietnam's first gay-themed novel).
Flamingo Vietnam UTOPIAN VERIFIED JAN 2013
8/46/67 Linh Quang, Van Chuong, +84 98 594-4185, email. Gay-owned Flamingo Vietnam designs vacation for gay travelers who want to explore Vietnam's vibrant cultures, history and contemporary life. They offer distinctive travel programs with top-notch, private, English-speaking guides. Try their exclusive, private gay cruise on Halong Bay with a private party at a gay beach. Travelers seeking wellness and beauty holidays or adventure and activities are also welcome. Packages are flexibile for a highly customized experience that might include scuba diving, river cruises, elephant riding, cuisine and cooking classes, beach resorts and shopping. Utopia Member Discount
Rainbow Tourism UTOPIAN VERIFIED JAN 2014
147 Nguyen Van Cu St, Hanoi, +84 90 328-6504, 016-4761-7238, FAX +844-3878-7695, email. Gay-owned travel service. Travel arranged in Vietnam and Asia.
LVP Travel Group UTOPIA VERIFIED FEB 2014
123 Trung Kinh St, Cau Giay Dist, Hanoi, + 84 90-668-0989, email. Gay and lesbian-friendly travel focus in northern Vietnam. Trip arrangements at the beaches, in Ha Long Bay, Da Nang, Hoi An and more. Based in Vietnam, they offer full support along the way, from custom sightseeing trips, to tickets to the theater, to help with the dinner menu - they are your personal Vietnamese concierge. Utopia Member Discount
VietTin Travel UTOPIA VERIFIED JUL 2013|
204E Su Van Hanh, Ward 9. Dist 5, Ho Chi Minh City, +84 3833-3108, 091-201-1790, FAX +84 38333221, email. Gay-owned, tailor-made tours, inbound and outbound travel planning, tickets, hotel reservations, visa services, car rentals and MICE events.
The population of Can Tho is over a million (that's more than 40,000 Utopians).
- Disco at the Hotel Gulf. Gay men go here.
- Chez Moi Disco (mixed)
Chez Moi (near Xuan Huong Lake). Young crowd with plenty of gays on Sat nights.
JohnPhanVietnam UTOPIA VERIFIED JUN 2013
Hoang Sa St (opp Furama Resort), 012-2743-1219, email. Gay-managed massage for men by men. Choose your massuer.
- Golden Pine Pub UTOPIAN VERIFIED DEC 2011
52 Bach Dang St (not exactly by the river, but across the road). Decent food and reasonably priced beer. Some gay couples there. Friendly and nice place to enjoy the view with someone special.
Population is a half million (that's 20,000 Utopians).
Click here for Haiphong hotels and accommodations.
HO CHI MINH CITY - SAIGON -- area code (84-8)
Click here for Ho Chi Minh City - Saigon listings.
The capital of Hoa Binh Province, located 76k from Hanoi.
Click here for Hoa Binh hotels and accommodations.
Bamboo Buddha Restaurant & Lounge (French/international) UTOPIA VERIFIED DEC 2012
On Nguyen Hoang St, An Hoi Islet, +84 392-5000, email. Refined French/international restaurant and lounge. Steaks, roasted chicken, tapas, foie gras, sangria and extensive wine list. Set in a beautiful 3-storey colonial building just across from the ancient town. Utopia Member Discount
Nu Eatery UTOPIA VERIFIED SEP 2014
10A Nguyen Thi Minh Khai, +84 12-9519-0190, email. Gay-owned, relaxed, dining experience in a residential neighborhood, steps away from the landmark Japanese Covered Bridge. Good food, fun people watching, and great conversations over a glass of cold beer. Try their homemade ice creams. Free postcards and travel tips. Utopia Member Discount
Son Hoian Restaurant (Vietnamese) UTOPIA VERIFIED JAN 2013
177 Cua Dai, Cam Chau, 989-501-400, email. Gay-managed chill-out ambience with waterfront seating. Simple, elegant comtemporary interior design and decor. Many delicious and authentic Vietnamese cuisine prepared following "slow food" practice. Jazz music collection and the very friendly staff make you feel quite at your home. Utopia Member Discount
24h Clothes Shop UTOPIAN VERIFIED SEP 2012
277 Nguyen Duy Hieu St, +84 (0)510-391-4079, (0)909-643-664, email. Gay-owned tailor offering quality, made-to-measure clothing for men and custom designed to your request. Extensive range of fabrics to choose from and value-for-money prices. English speaking staff available in the store at all times. Utopia Member Discount
Chic Couture UTOPIA VERIFIED JAN 2015
698 Hai Ba Trung St, +84 510-386-4110, email. Gay-friendly tailor shop making all kind of clothes for men and women. Open 8am until 9pm. Utopia Member Discount
Ken Tailor UTOPIA VERIFIED MAR 2012
11 Nguyen Thai Hoc, email Gay and lesbian-friendly tailor. Make to measure clothes with 16 years experience. Everyone is welcome at their shop. Utopia Member Discount
Sung Antique Shop
Nguyen Thai Hoc St, Inside Hoi An ancient town.
3K Tourist Service Office UTOPIA VERIFIED JAN 2013
3K Hung Vuong St, 090-509-7272, (058) 352-7008, email.
Click here for Nha Trang hotels and accommodations.
- Sailing Club (mixed) UTOPIAN VERIFIED JUN 2010
There is no 100% gay club in Nha Trang yet. Most bars and pubs are along the intersection between Tran Phu St (seaside main road) and Tran Quang Khai, and Nguyen Thien Thuat. You can get cheap drink with flyers and during happy hours. After 11pm, people hang out at Sailing Club. This is the only club on the seaside open till 2am. It is straight club, but, as usual, you will detect a gay corner.
Swing UTOPIAN VERIFIED APR 2012
Outside Nha Trang center. Mostly gay staff and a meeting place in the evenings, especially weekends. Under 30 crowd.
- Walk past the fun fair and hotel on the beach to a garden area and derelict beach resort. Lots of action most evenings, 7pm-midnight. UTOPIAN VERIFIED MAR 2013
Phan Thiet / Mui Ne
Click here for Phan Thiet / Mui Ne hotels and accommodations.
DJ Station UTOPIAN VERIFIED DEC 2012
120C Nguyen Dinh Chieu, Ham Tien Dist. The very first gay-friendly bar to open here. It's on the beach. They have a live DJ every night. Owned by former manager/DJ of Wax Club. Great music and friendly.
Phu Quoc Island
Click here for Phu Quoc hotels and accommodations.
Buddy Ice Cream & Info Café UTOPIA VERIFIED MAR 2010
26 Nguyen Trai St, Duong Dong, +84 077 399-4181, email. Gay-friendly and established in 2005 with the aim of providing all visitors with impartial tourist information as well as fantastic New Zealand ice cream products, smoothies, shakes, juices, cakes and various snacks. Free Wi-Fi, free Phu Quoc Island and town maps. Utopia Member Discount
- Toan Cau
Email. Internet café with helpful owner.
Qui Nhon (Binh Dinh)
Click here for Qui Nhon hotels and accommodations.
Tam Hai / Tam Ky
Click here for Tam Hai / Tam Ky hotels and accommodations.
The Beer Club N Pub UTOPIA VERIFIED JUN 2014
18 Nguyen Truong To, Ward 3 , +84 90-920-1234. Gay-owned, gay popular bar and restaurant. Serving barbecue, beer, wine, soft drinks. Especially crowded on weekend evenings. Open 4pm-4am. Utopia Member Discount
- Blue Moon
Behind the Grand Hotel on Ha Long St. A regular hangout for gays and lesbians.
- Vitamin C (mixed)
Located at the corner of Nguyen Truong To and Hoang Hoa Tham St, Ward 3. Mixed, but a number of gays go here. Good crowd gathers after Blue Moon closes.
- Club 7
At the end of Quang Trung St (near former post office, on the way from Front Beach to Back Beach). A nice place to go after 8pm. Popular with gays. No entry fee, but drinks are a must.
Beach O Quan
A small, secluded beach located between Back Beach (Bai Sau) and Strawberry Beach (Bai Dau), right underneath the Jesus statue. At low tide some hot activities can occur between the rocks. Some nude sunbathing.
Dolphin Swimming Pool facing the sea on the one side and the Sammy Hotel on the other side. Check out the shower cabins in the basement.
Promenade on Quang Trung St. Gays cruise here after 11pm.
NaDam Spa Vung Tau UTOPIA VERIFIED JUL 2014
173/15 Le Hong Phong, Phuong 8, 0968-282-186, 0907-939-888. Sister branch of HCMC's fabulous, world class gay men's sauna and spa. Open Oct 31, 2013.
Comments from Utopians:
"What a great place, what a great welcome. We took a taxi and they helped us get one on the way back. Free bottle of water on arrival and personal service to your well lit locker. Towels were fresh and packaged. The place was just so stylish and the locals very friendly. No problem getting attention here, everyone is just great." -- Thien Bao, May 2, 2014
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