The expanded and updated 2nd Edition of the Utopia Guide to Cambodia, Laos, Myanmar & Vietnam offers a remarkable insider's glimpse at the gay and lesbian scene in 18 cities including Hanoi, Ho Chi Minh City/Saigon, Vientiane, Luang Prabang, Yangon/Rangoon, Phnom Penh, and Angkor Wat/Siem Reap. Enjoy savvy comments and recommendations from local Utopians, as well as gay travelers. Click here to order

We'll tell you a secret. Laos is a don't-miss destination that most travelers to Asia skip simply because they haven't a clue about the wealth of beauty and tradition waiting to be discovered here. Spectacular landscapes that would have thrilled Ansel Adams abound; traditional life that has long-vanished from other parts of Asia continues here with refreshing vitality; friendly, law-abiding citizens wear handsome faces that reflect the converging streams of cultures and ethnicities that flow along the mighty mother river Mekong; costumes, cuisine, gardens and homes are a color-splashed feast for the senses. Laos has a very young population, so we expect its refreshing vibrancy to blossom further as the new generation gains confidence and freedom.

Don't travel to Laos expecting to find a sophisticated gay scene. Instead, enjoy the gentle and familial tolerance towards local gays who have begun to stand out and contribute their talents to trendy cafés, pubs, boutique hotels, galleries, restaurants and craft shops popping up in the two main cities.

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• If you're planning a trip to Asia, make sure you make a stop in the beautiful country of Laos. While a vacation to Mexico or Hawaii may be relaxing, you can find great travel deals to Laos and take an exciting, cultural trip in one of Asia's most beautiful countries.

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• Purple Dragon
  119/5-10 Surawong Rd, Bangkok, (662) 238-3227, FAX (662) 634-0292, email. Asia's oldest and largest gay tour company offers hundreds of options using local English-speaking guides throughout Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam, Laos, Myanmar (Burma), India, China, Singapore and Bhutan. Specializes in programs focusing on culture, cuisine, adventure and aesthetic improvement programs. Utopia Member Discount

Dondet Islands

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• River Garden (Asian and western)
  (856-20) 770-1860, email. Gay-friendly restaurant and guesthouse offering a mix of Lao, Thai and European food, plus great fresh fruit shakes. The restaurant is a brilliant spot to view the sunrise. Friendly owner, Mr. Aek, will tell you stories about the local people.

LUANG PRABANG -- area code (856-71)

Visitors to Southeast Asia should not miss a chance to visit this UNESCO World Heritage city nestled between the Mekong river and verdant jungle mountains. Visitors are delighted by the city's authentic ambience, the traditional lifestyle intrinsic to its singular charm, and the wealth of cultural treasures from the everyday lives of its monks, hilltribes, merchants, and craftsmen.

There is a surprising gay presence in the city, and even some low key, easy-going nightlife. But it is still a small town and everyone knows everybody else's business. Don't come here expecting to party. Luang Prabang is a place to relax, heal, chill-out and reflect. Everyone is generally asleep by midnight and up at dawn to feed the monks. Click here for more details and photos in our special report on this former royal capital.



The population of Luang Prabang is 26,000 (that's over 1,000 Utopians).

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• Khob Chai
  020-997-0106, email. A Lao gay-owned bar with cool tunes, relaxed atmosphere, and an excellent restaurant. It's a fun place to rub elbows with the local Lao and ex-pat gays, as well as visiting gays. It is located on the road that goes along the Nam Khan River, near Wat Aphay, on the other side of Phousi Mountain from the main street -- less than a five-minute walk, or a quick tuk-tuk ride. Open daily from 3pm - midnight. Happy hour daily until 10pm. Utopia Member Discount

  Comments from Utopians:

  "Khob Chai bar and Lao Lao Garden directly across the street (the restaurant associated with Khob Chai) are great places to relax and meet local guys. The locals are down to earth, good natured, friendly and a lot of fun. I ended up spending the next day and 3 evenings with a new friend. We ate at local places and I met his friends and learned a lot about how Lao people live." -- fsnyc, Feb 23, 2006

• Maylek Pub (mixed)
  On the corner of Kitsarath Settathirat Rd and Visunnarat Rd, not far from the Dara Market. Open air night spot. Easy-going, cozy atmosphere. Good variety of cocktails. DJ parties on occasion (watch for flyers around town). Reggae and blues beats, low-slung lounge chairs, and smiles from strangers (imagine that!).

• Dao Faa (mixed)
  Near the stadium. Nightly.

  Comments from Utopians:

  "This might be the only specific place for gays in town. Dao Fa means "blue star" and is the most popular disco here at the moment. You will find lots of cute local guys and some gays. LPB is a gay friendly city. I loved it and will be back soon for sure!" -- vecchio, Oct 22, 2006

• Duang Jampa (mixed)
  Just outside town, about 15-20 minutes by tuk-tuk or truck (ask your driver to wait and take you home). Open nightly, from 9:30pm-midnight. Very popular with local gays.
• Muang Xuo (mixed)
  Phou Vao Rd. Nightly (closes before midnight). Packed and popular Lao style disco, with live music, disco dancing and socializing. Plan to walk home if you stay until closing as transportation will be difficult to find late at night.

• James Pub (mixed)
  Next to Dao Faa, near the stadium. Karaoke and dance from 10:30pm-midnight. Young crowd, including local gays.
• Kitti Tum (mixed)
  Next to stadium, near Dao Faa.

• Dhammada de Massage
  Near the Dala Market, 020-554-5995. Mainly masseurs, unlike the rest of the massage places in town.

  Comments from Utopians:

  "A new spa. It costs a little bit more then the Lotus, but it's a class above, in both setting location and massage. Masseurs are all cute." -- bronte, Jan 26, 2008

• Lotus Spa

  Comments from Utopians:

  "Lotus Spa is stylish, immaculate and you can get a traditional Lao massage there (which is similar to a Thai massage) for $3. US. They also offer oil massages, facials and other spa services at the same low price. You can ask for a male masseur at this place." -- fsnyc, Feb 23, 2006

• Red Cross blind massage

  Comments from Utopians:

  "The Red Cross has a great herbal sauna and you can steam and sit on the veranda and cool off in between steams and drink special herbal tea and/or get a massage there for US$3. It's very down-to-earth and relaxing. Not gay, but it has a discreet gay vibe. You will most likely meet local gays or gay tourists there. Massage from 9am, sauna open at 4pm. Closes at 9pm." -- fsnyc, Feb 23, 2006

• Seng's Massage
  071-253-385.

  Comments from Utopians:

  "I had a wonderful massage from a young man at Lotus du Kao Herbal Spa & Massage, Si Sa Vang Vong Rd. When you first arrive you only see the ladies; don't be shy -- ask for a masseur and enjoy!" -- bushtraveler , May 13, 2007

The Apsara (Lao and international fusion) Kingkitsarath Rd, Baan Wat Sene, 212-420, email. From Villa Santi, walk down the hill towards the Khan River (opposite side of the Peninsula from the the Mekong) and make a left. The Apsara restaurant and guesthouse is a couple blocks down. At night it glimmers with candlelight. Located in a lovingly renovated heritage building overlooking the river. Stylish decor blends funky Asian elements, bold color and fine art. Well-stocked bar, smart and attentive staff, and excellent menu accent the local lifestyle. After dinner tuck into a fabulous dessert like coconut lime pie drizzled with home-made quince sauce, or sink back in the lounge seating for cocktails, conversation, and chill-out music.

• Café Régine (pasta, pizza, crepes, etc.)
  72/6 Sisavangvatthana Rd, 020-670-583, FAX 252-788, email. Gay-friendly restaurant that's a favorite place for breakfast (yummy hazelnut crepes), lunch and dinner. A half block up the street from Couleur Café.
• Couleur Café (French and Lao)
  48/5 Ban Vat Nong, 020-621-064, email. Gay-owned and staffed café near the Mekong and Café Regine. Open nightly, with reasonably priced drinks and food. Charming setting in an old heritage home, open to the street and colorfully decorated. Cool, jazzy music. Popular with visitors and local gays alike. The name refers to luscious coffee-colored skin tones.
• The House
  Phousi Rd (Nam Khan Riverside), 255-021, email. The House is a gay and lesbian-friendly restaurant and bar with great food, cocktails and wine. Cool inside seating whedn the weather is too hot and a lovely terrace full of flowers. For every budget.

  Comments from Utopians:

  "A new bar/restaurant, next door to Lao Lao Garden. Cute staff." -- wolfcub, May 2, 2008

  L'Elephant Restaurant et Salon de thé (Lao and international fine dining) Ban Vat Nong (on the corner opposite Wat Nong), 252-482, email. Sophisticated cuisine incorporating the freshest local ingredients, full bar and fine wines, and utterly delectable sweets. The setting is elegant with striking design (even their bathroom sets a standard for beauty and cleanliness). Excellent service from charming waiters and friendly management. Don't miss a chance to dine here (and also, check out the beautiful hand woven silks in the shop next door).

  Comments from Utopians:

  "L'Elephante is a knockout restaurant heavy on French colonial atmosphere. The food is good -- not the usual Eurasian take on French food -- it's authentic! The owners are welcoming and create a friendly 'stay awhile' atmosphere. Its very much in demand so you may want to reserve in advance. Gay friendly, but not gay (although...), you will feel right 'a la maison' (at home)." -- top8guy, Jul 16, 2007

• Le Café Ban Vat Sene (coffee shop)
  On the main road, opposite and down a bit from Villa Santi. Up-market and gay-friendly hang-out serving good Lao and international food, baked goods (great croissants) and fantastic pastries (try the banana pie!). Superior Lao craft items on sale as well. Handsome waiters are oh so charming.
• Le Potiron (snacks and drinks)
  Sisavangvong Rd. One of the many open air cafés lining the main avenue. Cute and friendly staff.
• Luang Prabang Bakery
  Sisavangvong Rd, 252-499. One of Luang Prabang's fantastic bakeries. Sit and watch the passersby while munching on fresh bread, quiche, or heavenly desserts.
• Park Houay Mixay Restaurant (Lao and Luang Prabang)
  75/6 Ban Sothikhoummane Rd (not far from Wat Paa Phai), 212-260. Some of the best local cuisine in town. Be sure to try a Luang Prabang style salad made from fresh watercress. Other great dishes: plaa brio waan (fish in thick, pungent sweet and sour tamarind paste); sí ooa (spicy northern pork sausage); mook plaa (herbed fish soufflé); poa naw mai (stuffed bamboo shoot); and the local specialty -- kai pan (crispy riverweed with sesame) dipped in jao bong (buffalo skin jam).
• Restaurant Vouthi Mixay (Lao and Luang Prabang)
  Phou Vao Rd, 212-888. Sister branch of Park Houay Mixay, near Muang Xuo disco.

Vangvieng -- area code (856-23)

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VIENTIANE -- area code (856-21)

The capital city is a short ride from the border with Thailand at Nongkhai. It is very easy to visit Vientiane, even for a day. There is a shuttle bus from the Thai side of the friendship bridge which will take you across to Laos. The Visa-on-arrival office however is not always open, so be sure to check before you cross or you may not be able to enter Laos.

The Mekong river divides a community of people who are basically Esarn culturally. Everyone in Vientiane can speak and understand Thai. They all listen to Thai pop music, watch Thai TV, and it is relatively easy for the Lao to cross over to Thailand. On the Thai side of the river, people listen to Lao country songs and speak Lao. The most noticeable distinctions from Thai-Esarn are the bright red dirt roads which slice through an abundance of trees and wildflowers which have long since vanished from Thai farms and gardens. You may also notice that Lao temples are more animistic, colorful, and free-form compared with the institutionalized decor and behaviors in Thai temples. In general, Laos appears lush, natural and carefree.

Vientiane has a frontier town feel to it, with its drowsy lanes, ever-spreading gardens, and French-colonial villas slowly fading into sepia-tinted retirement.

There are lots of clubs, karaoke bars, discos, and restaurants in town that appeal to local gays and lesbians. Nightlife swings until early morning.

It is best to use Thai baht while in Vientiane. The initial fun of wielding fistfuls of kip gets tired quickly, and you won't be able to exchange any of it when you leave unless you have your original receipt when you first exchanged your money into local currency.

The population of the capital city is over 200,000 (that's 8,000 Utopians).

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• Don't miss the mysterious, fantastical folk-sculpture garden, a short drive south from the Friendship Bridge, which is the older sibling to Wat Kaeg on the Thai side of the Mekong.
• Several temples offer traditional Lao herbal saunas which are open to the public and good places to relax with the locals. Braver sorts might enjoy a relaxing work-over at Ajarn Amphone's Herbal Sauna on Anjou Street (1 block northwest of the Tai-pan hotel) which includes an hour-long Shaolin massage by a Kung Fu master, including welt-inducing vacuum cups.

• Blue Cool (mixed)
  Located on the right side of the road as you drive on Luangprabang Rd from the airport to Novotel. New club opened by the former owner of Pack Luck.
• Pack Luck Bar (formerly G-Vientiane Pub and Bar)
  Luang Prabang Rd (500m from the Novotel towards the airport on the left side of the street), 020-780-9341, email. A gay-friendly bar with a disco setting downstairs and a cabaret show most nights at 9:30pm. There is a quiet lounge on 2/F. Open nightly from 8pm.

  Comments from Utopians:

  "Pot luck if there will be anyone in here apart from you, but best and busiest on a Sat night. They put on a ladyboy show if there are enough customers to watch." -- wolfcub, Apr 26, 2008

• Lak Song (mixed)
  Sene Souk Hotel nightclub, 100 Louangprabang Rd, 213-375. Popular disco attracts a young crowd. Standing room only on Sat nights. Some prefer to go other nights when it is less crowded and conversations are possible. Closes at midnight.

  Comments from Utopians:

  "Last night I went to the night club at the Dong Tan Palace Hotel, on the river front, east of the city center. Many gays there. It's a place to go after everywhere else in the city closes at midnight, as it's open until at least 2am every night." -- wolfcub, Apr 26, 2008

• D-Tech (mixed)
  At the Novotel. Best decorated club in town with an international crowd. Far and away Vientiane's most popular disco. Jam packed on Wed Fri Sat and Sun after 9pm. Closes at 11pm - same as everywhere. Extremely loud music, of course.

• Outdoor boxing school beside the river.
• Place Nam Phou fountain in the evenings.
• The riverside park.

• Europe Restaurant (Swiss, Italian, French, and Asian cuisine)
  086 Ban Saphanthong Neua, Phonsavanh Rd, 414-086, mobile 020-207-539. Partners Peter and Pasa have opened at a bigger and better location for their famous restaurant. Excellent service and fine cuisine. Staff are handsome and friendly.
• Europe Swiss Restaurant (Swiss)
  086 Ban Saphanthong Neua, Phonsavanh Rd, 414-086, mobile: 20-220-7539. Handsome and friendly staff.
• Healthy and Fresh Bakery
  44/4 Ban Xieng Yeun, Sethathirath Rd, 215-265. Excellent and inexpensive light lunches.
• Kua Lao (Lao)
  111 Samsenthai Rd, 215-777, 214-813.
• L'Opera (Italian)
  Namphu Circle, 215-099. Excellent food and classical music playing softly in the background. Try their special "Lao Pizza".
• Le Bayou Restaurant Brasserie (French and American)
  Sethathirath Rd, 222-227.
• Le Provencal (French)
  Namphu circle (diagonally opp. from L'Opera), 513-412. Authentic French country cuisine.
• Le Safran (French)
  Rue Nokeokoumane, 222-997, 215-626.
• Le Silapa (French)
  17/1 Sihom Rd, Ban Haysok, 219-689. Superb cuisine.
• Le Vendome (French)
  159/1-2 Inpeng Ban Watchane, 216-402, 020-612-467, email. Excellent French cuisine in an old Lao colonial house, with tables both outside under fans or inside with aircon. Average price US$15 per person for three courses without wine. Very friendly atmosphere.
• Moon the Night (Lao)
  Thanon Kamkon (on the banks of the Mekong), 217-073. About 10 minutes drive from the Novotel. The easiest way to get there is by tuk-tuk (it’s well-known among the locals). This restaurant can get packed full of good looking Lao young people. They play some very gay songs, i.e. I Will Survive, Can’t Take my Eyes Off of You, etc. Lots of fun.
• Phone Pha Chan Bistro (cafe)
  Noreko Kummane Rd, Ban Mixay, 216-045. Inexpensive cafe with photo exhibitions.
• Riverside open-air restaurants (plentiful, ask your friend to take you there for lunch).

Comments from Utopians:

"Do not miss Art TeeTong's Jai Dee Restaurant. Art, the owner, is very friendly and he knows everything a Utopian should know about the capital. The restaurant/bar is located on Manthathuriat St, near the Namphou Fountain. There are many places for meeting new Lao friends in Vientiane. As they may change, contact Art and he will tell you. Have a drink at Art's bar. It is always open during the day. To eat, go at night for a wonderful dinner. His staff is very friendly and good-looking!" -- pixman, Feb 6, 2008

• Hatpraseuth Massage & Sauna
  218-654. Open 10am to 10pm. Mixed massage establishment with two or three masseurs who are professionally trained.

• Talaat Sao. The charming, large, central city market is full of craft items, especially traditional fabrics.