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General Information

    India has an historic homosexual tradition. Surviving texts from as early as the 1500s mention the subject and sacred imagery depicts same-sex interaction between women. Both Muslim Nawabs and wealthy Hindus were recorded as having harems of young males. Tantric rituals are also known to have included homosexual acts.

    Generally gays and men who enjoy the company of other men may be found in urban public places, such as bus/rail depots and facilities, gardens and parks, cinema balconys, etc.

    Male-to-female transgenders and hijras (eunuchs) have widespread, yet ambivalent, visibility in many local communities.

    India's newly emerging LGBT communities, along with its variegated sexual behaviors that defy easy categorization, provide substantiation of the diversity of human nature; a diversity that is more visible than ever as the social freedoms sweeping through Asia erode irrelevant strictures of British colonials and organized religion.

    Most gay social contacts here are made online through services like Gay Romeo and ManJam. Many men you meet will profess to be bisexual and, often, be married or under pressure to get married. India, only recently having struck down it's anti-buggary laws, is still largely uneducated about homosexuality and, mostly because of having been criminalized for so many years, there is still shame in society to be identified as gay.

  • Being A Eunuch by Siddarth Narrain
  • The Law and Homosexuality in India by Sherry Joseph
  • Men in India message forum
  • India Gay Scene Updates message forum
  • Travel in India message forum
  • Why should homosexuality be a crime? an article from The Times of India
  • Additional links for India GLBT information.


Articles and Publications

  • Bombay Dost
      Influential and long-running GLBT magazine.


Organizations


Travel Services

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  • GoPink.asia
      Email. Gay-owned travel service offering unique guided vacations for gay men who enjoy tours with a gay flair. Exciting vacations of discovery and adventure to destinations in India, Nepal and other Asian countries. The philosophy of GoPink.asia is to unite gay men from different cultures and continents and immerse them in the individual culture of locations visited through various activities. Utopia Member Discount
  • IndianQueers
      +91-97-1160-3139, email. Your one-stop gay guide to what's hot on the Indian gay scene. Find information about gay clubs, events, travel, holiday accommodation, restaurants, shopping, gay beaches, cruising and a list of all the best in things on offer for the gay community.
  • Indjapink
      B-91, 1st Floor Lajpat Nagar - I, New Delhi - 24, +91-11-4652-9883, +91-935-001-3934, email. Unique custom gay tours that are difficult to arrange and require extraordinary insider connections with remarkable local people. Open the door to gay way of life and deeper insight into the soul of Indian culture and gay India. Hand-picked accommodations in select destinations. Stay at a luxurious independent and boutique hotels, fully staffed for your comfort and convenience - the perfect mixture of authenticity, luxury and comfort. They arrange for travelers to have private vehicles, gay or gay-friendly guides, spa treatments, and a 24/7 ability to contact their staff. Be a part of some of the most exclusive gay parties in India.
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      GuruPrasad, Mahim, +91-882-880-4088, email. India's exclusively gay outbound travel club. Experts in gay group travel to gay-friendly destinations such as Thailand. Check their website to join upcoming adventures. Utopia Member Discount



Agra (Uttar Pradesh)

Popular Spots

Meeting Places

    • Idgah Bus Stand facility
        MSM frequent here from dusk onwards.
    • Park in front of Fort Railway Station.



Ahmedabad / Karnavati (Gujarat) -- area code (91-79)

    The population of Ahmedabad is over 7 million people (that's close to 300,000 Utopians).


Popular Spots

Restaurants and Cafes

    • CCD Coffee Place
        Ashram Rd (at the gas pump opposite Nehru Bridge). Hopping on Wed and Thu nights.



Allahabad (Uttar Pradesh)

Popular Spots

Meeting Places

    • Company Garden
        After dusk at the inner circle.



Bangalore / Bengaluru (Karnataka)

Organizations

  • Alternative Law Forum
      Non-profit organisation providing legal support to many marginalised populations, including LGBT people.
  • Bangalore Pride
      Organizers of the city's annual pride festivities.
  • Bangalore Queer Film Fest
      A non-ticketed, free event aimed at providing films based on themes related to lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender or intersex communities across the world.
  • Good As You
      Support group for LGBT meets every Thu, 7-9pm. India's oldest informal support group, going strong since the 1990s.
  • Swabhava Trust
      Non-profit organisation, established in 1999, working with LGBT groups in Bangalore and providing access to support services. They run a telephone helpline called SAHAYA at +91-80-22230959.
  • Samara
      Non-profit community organisation, working with HIV among MSM and transgender people in Bangalore.
  • Sangama
      Non-profit organisation working with advocacy efforts among LGBT people, particularly the economically challenged.
  • We're Here and Queer! (WHaQ!)
      An informal support group for lesbian and bisexual women at whaqbangalore@googlegroups.com


Popular Spots

Bars and Clubs

    • Pink Nation
        +91-99-8053-0950, email. Pink Nation was conceptualized exclusively for your partying excesses. They work hard to bring you exciting LGBT parties and travel. Pink Nation is made up of you, your friends and people like you, who believe Pink Nation is the new Republic. See their website for party schedules. Utopia Member Discount


Massage for Men

    • Arun Massage
        12 Indiranagar, 97-4101-4481, email. Gay-owned massage for men. Qualified, young, energetic masseurs available in Bangalore, only at your place, at reasonable cost. 24 hours.
    • Full Body Massage
        +91-98-8668-0630, email. Gay-owned massage for men. Qualified, cute, young, energetic masseurs available. Incall or also at your place, at a reasonable cost. 24-hours.
    • Male To Male Body Massage
        99-0163-8861, email. Gay-owned. Call Arun for male to male body massage service. Professional, full body massage. Call at least one hour before to make an appointment.
    • Sync Massage
        96-6354-7692, email. Gay-friendly, highly trained massage therapist. Each massage is individually tailored to meet your needs, whether you need is relaxation, therapeutic work, or one of their other bodywork specialties. Educated, decent, and hygenic.


Meeting Places

    • Majestic Bus Stand.
    • Corporation Bus Stop.
    • Corporation Library (Kubban Park Extension).


Restaurants and Cafes

    • Ching Lung
        Residence Rd. Reported as a popular local gay hang-out on weekends.



Bareilley (Uttar Pradesh)

Popular Spots

Meeting Places

    • Gandhi Park after dusk.



Bidar (Karnataka)

Popular Spots

Meeting Places

    • Try the parks and bus stands.



Bijapur (Karnataka)

Popular Spots

Meeting Places

    • Barah Kaman, in and near the monument.



Calangute / Baga (Goa)

Popular Spots

Bars and Clubs

    • Paradise (mixed)
        Paradise Village (close to Calangute Circle). Best on Tue and Sat (karaoke nights) from 10pm onwards. Gay-friendly crowd. Mainly mature men.


Meeting Places

    • Baga Beach
        Near the Andrew's and Lucky Star beach shacks. Favourite gay gathering point for sea and sunbathing.

        Comments from Utopians:

        "Goa has long been the antidote to loneliness and boredom. Meet new friends aand locals on the beach. There is an active expat gay community here and lots of Indians, and it's easy to make friends and find companionship." -- Raj at Emanuel Beach Shack, Baga Beach, Dec 28, 2011

    • Entire stretch of beach from Calangute to Baga, especially the section near Tito's. Evening and nights, particularly on Sat.
    • Hysons Beach
        Near Gaura Vaddo St. Head for Candolim Bardez. 100m on the left after the church in the middle of the road, take any road down to the beach. Best from8am-6pm. All ages.


Shops and Salons

    • Neomi salon
        Panjim and Colva. Also offering massage. Closed Mon.



Candolim (Goa)

Popular Spots

Bars and Clubs

    • Gay bar directly across from the new Newton's supermarket. Ask any taxi for the supermarket and look across the street on 2/F.



Chandigarh -- area code (91-172)

General Information

    Chandigarh is the capital of two states: Punjab and Haryana. The population is over a million people (that's more than 40,000 Utopians).


Popular Spots

Bars and Clubs

    • Down Under (mixed)
        B/F SCO 196-97, Sector 17C, 272-3000, 272-3001. Located in the posh shopping area of Sector 17. Down Under is the downstairs bar of the large Hot Millions food complex. Western music. Menu offers Italian, TexMex and Indian food. Popular on weekend evenings. Mostly for lesbians, but gay men are very welcome. Warm and chatty, especially the owner.


Discos

    • Blue Ice (mixed)
        SCO 7, Sector 17E, 270-3338, 501-7966.

        Comments from Utopians:

        "Blue Ice is a cruising spot. I met a rather cute guy there. He was quite open with me, asked me directly if I'm interested in guys, and when I said yes he asked if I was interested in him. Right there at the bar where the barman could hear! Oh, and they have friendly barmen and tasty light meals too!" -- Brian, Jan 12, 2012


Meeting Places

    • Sector 17, evenings. Young crowd.



Chennai (Tamil Nadu) -- area code (91-44)

    The population of Chennai is over 7 million people (that's close to 300,000 Utopians).


Organizations

  • Men Community Development Society (MCDS)
      2618-4392, 5551-5742. Formed in 1992 with with technical support from the Indian Community Welfare Organisation, this NGO works with homosexuals to educate about sexually transmitted diseases and also addresses the violation of the rights of homosexuals.


Meeting Places

    • Lakshmi Theatre, 7pm show, especially Sat.



Coimbatore (Tamil Nadu)

Popular Spots

Meeting Places

    • Arts College Gate
        In front, between 6-8pm.
    • Delite Theater
        Balcony. Decent gays.
    • Gandhipuram
        Near the RV Hotel, the RR towers and opposite to it. There are Net shops in RR towers and gays standing outside to pick up partner as they chat online.
    • Krishnaveni Theater. Best on Sat evenings at 6:30pm. Reported very active.



DELHI / NEW DELHI (National Capital Territory) -- area code (91-11)




Dehradun (Uttarakhand)

Popular Spots

Meeting Places

    • Gandhi Park
        Near Ghantaghar/Paltan Bazaar, adjoining the Clock Tower (Ghantaghar) on Rajpura Rd. Lots of MSM throughout the day. Cruisy after dusk. Be discreet. Cops patrol. Go elsewhere once you meet a friend.



Ghaziabad (Uttar Pradesh) -- area code (91-575)

Popular Spots

Restaurants and Cafes

    • Cherryin Restaurant
        Sector 2, Raj Nagar. Well known as a meeting place for gays (friends, not cruising), especially on weekends.



Gulbarga (Karnataka)

Popular Spots

Meeting Places

    • Corporation Garden/Park
        Opposite Hotel Aditya. Cruising until 8pm (afterwards it's too dangerous).
    • SB Lake (Kera)
        Cruising the footpath.



Jaipur (Rajasthan State)

Popular Spots

Meeting Places

    • Tree of Life Resort & Spa, Jaipur
        Kacehrawala, Kukas, +91-96-209-1000, 209-2000, email. Gay and lesbian-friendly oasis of peace and harmony nestled in the Aravali Valley. Fourteen chic villas on seven acres of land - some with private pool - with independent spaces of over 2,200sqf, large private lawns, separate living and bedroom, outdoor shower and sunken tub, and the privilege of the service of your own butler. Utopia Member Discount


Bars and Clubs

    • Bouncer Bar (mixed)
        MI Rd, near the Nerosi restaurant. A two-floor bar where some gays go. Just observe what is going on and you may be surprised. The three barmen are very cute and open. Live Indian music almost every night.


Meeting Places

    • Maharaja Ranjeet Singh Park



Jaisalmer (Rajasthan)

Popular Spots

Accommodations

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Kanpur (Uttar Pradesh)

Popular Spots

Meeting Places

    • Park opposite the Kanpur Medical College, after dark.



Kochi / Cochin (Kerala)

Popular Spots

Meeting Places

    • GCDA
        On the right side of the jetty through the fences. Walk along the marina. Cruisiest at the GCDA shopping area. The public facility there is busiest from 8:30-10:00pm. Crowd is 20s-40s. Walk near the Taj Hotel to the end near Asoka Flats.
    • Subash Chandra Bose Park
        On the left side of the jetty as you face the water.
    • Thrissoor Park
        Cruising in the evenings, particularly Sat.



Kolkata / Calcutta (West Bengal State)

General Information

    The capital of West Bengal. Kolkata is the 3rd largest urban area in India. With an urban population of almost 5 million, and an extended metropolitan population of over 14 million, there are close to 750,000 Utopians in the area.

Popular Spots

Bars and Clubs

    • Aqua Cocktail Lounge (mixed)
        Park Hotel. This place attracts a middle and upper-class hip gay crowd on Sat. Tends to be more expensive with its drink and food (keeps away the rough trade).
    • Olympus Bar
        Park St. An inexpensive place for food and drink, popular among travelers and locals alike. Mixed crowd on Sat.
    • Sam's Bar
        Russel St, inside the Floriana Restaurant. Gay men hang around here any day of the week, but especially on Sat.
    • Someplace Else (mixed)
        Park Hotel. Attracts young, gay music lovers on Sat for its live bands, though its largely a mixed crowd.


Meeting Places

    • Mintoo Park at the T junction of AJC Bose Rd and Sarat Bose Rd is quite popular with gays every evening from 5-8pm, especially weekends.
    • Lakes (as it is popularly known among Kolkatans), located on Southern Ave. Quite infamous among gays for nightly rendevous (after 7pm). Beware of plain clothes authorities. Go elsewhere once you make a new friend.
    • Nandan Theater. Kolkata's cultural hub. Quite popular with the young, gay crowd, especially on weekends. Most of them hang outside the theater, opposite the coffee joint.
    • KC Das. This famous sweet shop is located in Esplanade. Outside the shop is a bus stand and in the evening it tends to become a pickup joint/ Beware of plain clothes authorities in this area.



Kota (Rajasthan)

Popular Spots

Meeting Places

    • CV Garden (Chattra Vilas Uddyan) at Nayapura is a gay cruising area.



Kozhikode / Calicut (Kerala)

Popular Spots

Meeting Places

    • Calicut Beach (famous).
    • Cinemas in the city center.
    • Kappad Beach.
    • KSRTC Bus Stand facility.
    • Manachira Square
        The park in the city center. Cruising happens below the trees.



Lucknow (Uttar Pradesh)

Popular Spots

Meeting Places

    • Capital Cinema park
        Park and bus stand opposite Capital Cinema.
    • GPO park.
    • Jhandewala Park in Aminabad.
    • Maqbara Park
        Near Pariwartyan Chowk. The majority of men in this park are MSM.
    • N E R Railway Station
        The facility outside is also known as an MSM meeting place.
    • Niboo Park in Chowk.



Mangalore (Karnataka)

Popular Spots

Meeting Places

    • Beaches
    • Facility opposite Poonja Arcade on KS Rao Rd, evenings.
    • Tagore Park from 5-9pm.



Margao (Goa)

Popular Spots

Meeting Places

    • Aga Khan Municipal Garden
        After dusk.



MUMBAI (Maharashtra) -- areacode (91-22)




Noida / New Okhla Industrial Development Area (Uttar Pradesh) -- area code (91-577)

Popular Spots

Restaurants and Cafes

    • Barista Coffee Shop
        Sector 18 (close to McDonalds). Popular with gay men.



Panaji / Panjim (Goa)

Popular Spots

Meeting Places

    • Campal Park
        On the right side of the main road leading to Miramar beach. Best in the evenings, after 5pm, in the dense trees and dimly lit promenade with benches along the beach.



Pathankot (Punjab)

Popular Spots

Meeting Places

    • Interstate bus stand.



Raichur (Karnataka)

Popular Spots

Meeting Places

    • Park near Hotel Nrupathunga.



Thiruvananthapuram (Kerala)

Popular Spots

Meeting Places

    • The museum lawns at Thiruvanandapuram are hunting grounds in the evenings.
    • Sree Bala Cinema
        On MG Rd, Eastfort. Across from the Saj Lucia Hotel and down about a block. Look for the petrol station and Sri Bala is the second building after that. Best times: during evening shows (but afternoon shows see some action). Cruisiest area is the balcony seating. Weekend nights: unexpected and very hot activities can happen at the furthest back end of the external facility behind G/F of the cinema. Just pretend to go there to use the tap to wash your hand. The walls facing the open urinals could have activities going on. Also during the day. Be discreet as the older security guard can get irate.



Trivandrum (Kerala)

Popular Spots

Meeting Places

    • Kovalam Beach
        About 15km from the city. Lovely (very clean) and loads of nice restaurants, gift shops and Ayurvedic clinics. Best of all, are the nice, friendly guys walking and playing on the beach. Some are MBs, but most are just looking to chat.
    • Some guesthouses behind the beachfront shops near the Planet Holiday and Bamboo resorts have young waiters and workers who may be available for fun, but be discreet.



Vadodara / Baroda (Gujarat) -- area code (91-265)

Popular Spots

Meeting Places

    • Bus depot facility.
    • Kamati Baug (Sayaji Baug) facility, after 8pm.



Varkala (Kerala) -- area code (91-470)

Popular Spots

Meeting Places

    • Kerala Konnections
        Janardhanapuram Rd, 215-7661, +91-9946-069770, email. A lovely, rainbow-owned homestay welcoming gays and lesbians, just a short distance from the beach and the tourist facilities. Onsite restaurant, laundry service, massage and art room. They also offer tailor made tours within Kerala.



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